I like them both but i would have to say that i prefer a mistress. There’s something about a strong woman that makes it feel more submissive in a sense. Almost any man can be a dominant figure, and almost any woman can be a submissive figure, but to truly switch them around is so invigorating. Not just switching rolls in the bedroom, but to be a truly dominant woman is absolutely amazing, as a truly submissive man that is what i long for.